When Rest Feels Unproductive: Why Your Guilt Is Lying to You.

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When Rest Feels Unproductive

I sat down for five quiet minutes. No phone. No background noise. No multitasking. Just stillness.

And almost instantly... I felt guilty.

Shouldn't I be doing something right now?
Shouldn't I be folding laundry, replying to that message, making a list?

It was like my worth started arguing with my pause. And that's when I realized something:

I don't know how to rest without defending it.

Maybe you've felt that too. We say we want rest, but when we finally get a moment to slow down, our inner critic kicks in. Because we've been conditioned to believe that rest is laziness. That slowing down means falling behind. That peace is only earned once the checklist is cleared.

But Jesus never said, "Come to Me, all who've finished everything and have it all together."

He said, "Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)

Not guilt. Not performance pressure. Just... rest.

Not because you've earned it—but because you need it.

And sometimes, the most spiritual thing you can do is take a nap. Or go on a walk. Or sit in silence with no agenda.

You don't have to earn rest to deserve it. Because you were never created to be all things to everyone. You were created to be with the One who already is.

So this Sunday, breathe deep. You're allowed to stop.

And God will still be at work—even when you're not.

Much Love & Blessings,

Ramzi

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"Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." – Matthew 11:28

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That heaviness? That fatigue? It's not laziness. It's your soul asking for care. Rest is productive in ways hustle never can be. Honor what your body is telling you.

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