The Beauty In The Waiting

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D E V O T I O N A L

It was one of those evenings where the stillness of the world made my thoughts louder.

I sat in my car outside the grocery store, the parking lot almost empty, the glow of the streetlights flickering slightly in the night breeze. I had nowhere urgent to be. No reason to rush inside. But I could not seem to move either.

I had prayed this morning. Prayed for a breakthrough. For clarity. For something to shift. For the thing I had been asking God about for months to finally happen.

But the silence from Heaven felt deafening.

I tapped my fingers on the steering wheel, watching as an older woman slowly and carefully loaded her groceries into the trunk of her car. No rush. No urgency. Just patience. I envied that.

She moved with the kind of calm that only comes from years of learning that hurrying does not make things happen faster. That life unfolds at its own pace, whether we fight it or not.

I sighed, resting my forehead against the wheel. God, am I just sitting here for nothing? Is this waiting just wasted time?

The question hung in the air, heavy with frustration and exhaustion. I was tired of waiting. Tired of praying the same prayer. Tired of hoping for something I could not see.

Then, my eyes caught something. A firefly. Just one, flickering in the dark.

Then another. And another.

Suddenly, the night was not as empty as I thought.

I watched them dance, their tiny lights blinking in perfect rhythm. A quiet reminder in the stillness.

God keeps whispering this truth: sometimes we think waiting is nothing more than wasted space, an endless pause between prayers and promises. But what if the waiting is where the work happens?

We treat waiting like a problem. An obstacle. A delay in the plan. We assume that if God is not giving us what we asked for immediately, then He is not listening. That if nothing is changing, nothing is happening.

But that is not how God works.

Waiting is not emptiness. It is preparation. It is not silence. It is shaping. It is not wasted time. It is sacred space where God does some of His deepest work.

What if this season is not about what is next? What if it is about what God is doing right now, in the hidden places of your heart that only stillness can reach?

What Scripture Says…

"But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint." — Isaiah 40:31

"Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!" — Psalm 27:14

"For the revelation awaits an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay." — Habakkuk 2:3

Notice what these verses do not say. They do not say waiting will be easy. They do not say it will be short. They do not promise that we will understand why.

But they do promise that waiting is not wasted. That strength is renewed in the waiting. That courage is built in the waiting. That what God promises will come at the appointed time, not a moment late.

Abraham waited twenty-five years for his promised son. Twenty-five years of hoping, praying, doubting, trusting. And when Isaac finally came, Abraham understood why the wait mattered. God was not just giving him a son. He was building his faith.

Joseph sat in a prison for years before stepping into his calling. Years of injustice, isolation, and wondering if God had forgotten him. But God was preparing him to lead a nation through famine. The waiting was not punishment. It was preparation.

David was anointed king long before he wore the crown. He spent years running from Saul, hiding in caves, leading a ragtag group of outlaws. But God was shaping him into the king Israel needed. The waiting refined him in ways the throne never could.

And in every season of waiting, God was not idle. He was working.

And He is working now, even in this stillness.

I smiled at the fireflies, their tiny glow reminding me that even in the waiting, light is still there. You just have to look for it.

So if you find yourself in a season of waiting, know this. God is not late. He is not ignoring you. He is not withholding something good out of cruelty or indifference.

He is preparing you. Strengthening you. Shaping you. Teaching you to trust not in a timeline, but in Him.

And one day, you will see why this season mattered so much.

For now, hold on. His timing is never wasted.

Much Love & Blessings,

Ramzi

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Family

If you are waiting for breakthrough in your family…healing in a relationship, change in a child, restoration in your marriage…do not give up. Keep praying. Keep showing up. Keep loving even when you do not see results. God is working in the waiting. The breakthrough may not come on your timeline, but it is coming. Trust Him with the process.

Relationships

Some relationships require long seasons of patience. You cannot force someone to grow, change, or heal. You can only be faithful in your own part and trust God with theirs. If you are waiting for reconciliation, for someone to come back, for a friendship to heal, keep praying. Keep extending grace. And trust that God is working in their heart even when you cannot see it.

Mental Health

Waiting seasons can be mentally exhausting. The uncertainty, the unanswered questions, the feeling that nothing is moving. If you are struggling, be honest about it. Talk to someone. Journal. Pray through the frustration. Waiting does not mean you have to suffer in silence. God can handle your impatience, your doubt, your anger. Bring it all to Him.

Finances

Financial waiting is hard. Waiting for the raise. The job. The debt to clear. The provision to show up. But do not let the waiting steal your peace. Keep being faithful with what you have. Keep trusting God with what you need. Sometimes the waiting is teaching you to depend on Him, not on the money. And that lesson is worth more than the breakthrough.

Physical Health

If you are waiting for healing, for strength to return, for a diagnosis, for relief from pain, the waiting can feel unbearable. But do not lose hope. Keep stewarding your body with wisdom. Keep asking God for healing. Keep trusting that He sees you, knows your pain, and has not forgotten you. Some healings are instant. Some are slow. Some are not what we expected. But God is faithful in all of them.

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"Waiting is not emptiness. It is preparation. It is not silence. It is shaping. It is not wasted time. It is sacred space."

P.S. If you are reading this while exhausted from waiting, while questioning if God has forgotten you, while wondering if this season will ever end, look for the fireflies. The tiny lights that remind you God is still at work, even in the dark. He has not forgotten you. He is not late. And the waiting is not wasted.

Lord,

I am tired of waiting. I have been praying the same prayer for so long, and I do not see anything changing.

Help me trust that You are at work, even when I cannot see it. Teach me to find beauty in the waiting instead of resenting it.

Strengthen my faith in this season. Build my patience. Deepen my trust. Remind me that Your timing is perfect, even when it feels unbearably slow.

Help me see the fireflies…the tiny lights that remind me You are still here, still working, still faithful. Give me the courage to keep waiting, keep praying, keep trusting.

I place my timeline in Your hands.

In Jesus' name, Amen.

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