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D E V O T I O N A L

My friend stopped halfway through a story over coffee last week and said, “You didn’t hear any of that, did you.”

And the honest answer was no.

I was nodding. I was making the right faces. My phone was face down on the table like a good person’s phone should be. But my mind was somewhere across town, in an email I had not answered yet, drafting a reply to somebody who was not even in the room.

My friend had been telling me something that mattered. I could not have repeated a single sentence of it back.

What gets me is that nothing about it looked rude. If you had walked past our table you would have seen two people having coffee and a nice conversation. The only one who could tell I was gone was the one person I was supposed to be there for.

That is the thing about being half here. It does not look like absence. You can be in the room, at the table, on the couch, in the car, and still not actually be with anybody.

I think most of us live a lot of our lives at about half. Half listening to our kids while we finish a text. Half present at dinner while we replay a meeting. Half in a conversation with our spouse while we plan tomorrow in our heads. We are physically there for almost everything and fully there for almost nothing.

We usually blame being busy. But that is not quite it either. Distraction is not really about how much is on your plate. It is about where your attention lives. And somewhere along the way, a lot of ours moved into our own heads and stopped coming out.

Philippians 2:4 says “Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.”

Take an interest. That is such a plain phrase, and I find it a little convicting. It is not asking for a grand gesture. It is asking for attention. Real interest in what is going on with the person in front of you, as opposed to waiting politely for your turn to talk, or for them to finish so you can get back to whatever you were really thinking about.

Look at how Jesus handled this. In Luke 8 He is on His way to the house of a synagogue leader whose daughter is dying. That is about as urgent as a schedule gets. The crowd is pressing in from every side. And a woman reaches out and touches the edge of His robe, and He stops. The whole procession stops. He asks who touched Him and waits until she comes forward and tells Him the whole story in front of everyone.

Then He calls her daughter.

He had every reason to be somewhere else in His head. He was not. And she walked away with more than healing. She walked away having been seen.

That is what full attention does. It tells a person they matter without you saying a word about it. Half attention tells them something too, even when we do not mean it to.

So here is the small thing I would ask this week.

Pick one conversation. Just one. Maybe it is dinner, maybe a phone call with your mom, maybe a drive with your kid. And be all the way in it. Phone in another room, not just face down. When your mind wanders off to the email or the meeting, and it will, notice it and bring it back. Ask one more question than you normally would. Then actually listen to the answer.

You might be surprised what you have been missing.

The holidays are coming, and you are about to be in a lot of rooms with a lot of people you love. Do not just show up.

Be there.

Much love and blessings,

Ramzi

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Family

Your kids can tell the difference between you listening and you nodding. They usually stop telling you things long before you notice they stopped.

Relationships

The people closest to you get the most of your half attention because they are always around. Give them the full version on purpose.

Mental Health

If your mind never stays where your body is, that can be a sign you are carrying too much. Notice it gently. If the noise in your head will not quiet down, a counselor is a good place to sort it out.

Physical Health

A mind that never lands wears the body out too. Try one walk, one meal or one drive this week with nothing playing and nothing to check.

Finances

A lot of spending happens on autopilot while we are half paying attention. Being present applies to your money too. Look before you tap.

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Being in the room is not the same as being there.

Lord, You know how often I am somewhere else while I am sitting right next to someone. Forgive me for giving the people You gave me only half of my attention. Slow my mind down enough to actually listen. Help me take a real interest in the person in front of me, the way You always do with me. Amen.